February 27, 2026 8:26 AM PST
Finding the “perfect” woman isn’t really about perfection — it’s about compatibility. I’ll answer you like a friend who’s thinking psychologically with you a bit.
Start with clarity about yourself Before looking for the right woman, ask: What kind of lifestyle do I want in 5–10 years? Do I want calm stability or adventure and intensity? Do I need affection and reassurance often, or independence? What are my non-negotiable values? Most people look for chemistry first. Long-term success comes from value alignment.